Also called ADD, ADHD, or
hyperactivity, a short attention span occurs in 3 percent to 5 percent
of children, most of them males. A normal attention span is 3 to
5 minutes per year of a child's age. Therefore, a 2-year-old
should
be able to concentrate on a particular task for at least 6 minutes, and
a child entering kindergarten should be able to concentrate for at
least
15 minutes. (Note: A child's attention span while watching TV is
not an accurate
measure of his or her attention span.)
If you suspect that your
child has a short attention span, ask another adult (a teacher or day
care
provider, for example) if they have observed this also.
ADHD is characterized by
a child that hasn't learned to listen when someone talks, wait his
turn,
complete a task, or return to a task if interrupted. These can be
normal characteristics of children less than 3 or 4 years old. Of
children with ADHD, 80 percent of boys and perhaps 50 percent of girls
are also
hyperactive. A child who has symptoms of hyperactivity is
restless,
impulsive, and in a hurry. 50 percent of these children also have
a learning disability. The most common learning disability is an
auditory processing deficit (that is, they have difficulty remembering
verbal directions). However, the intelligence of most children
with
ADHD is usually normal, even above normal.
Disruptive children,
children
who don't mind, and aggressive children are sometimes included under
the
broad category of hyperactivity. Many problem 2-year olds are
considered
"hyperactive." These children should be looked upon as children
with
behavior problems and approached with appropriate discipline
techniques.
Attention deficit disorder
is the most common developmental disability. "Developmental"
means
that the disability is caused by delayed brain development
(immaturity).
This delay results in poor self-control, requiring external controls by
the parents for a longer period of time. Often this type of
temperament
and short attention span is hereditary. A small percentage of
children
with ADHD are reacting to chaotic home environments, but in most cases
the parents' style of child-rearing has not caused the
disability.
Minor brain damage has not been proven to be a cause of ADHD
Children with ADHD on a
developmental basis can improve significantly if parents and teachers
provide
understanding and direction and preserve the child's self-esteem.
When these children become adults, many of them have good attention
spans
but remain restless, have to keep busy, and, in a sense, have not
entirely
outgrown the problem. However, not only does society learn to
tolerate
such traits in adults, but in some settings the person with endless
energy
is prized. Children with severe ADHD may need vocational
counseling
as adults.
Attention deficit disorder
is a chronic condition that needs special parenting and school
intervention.
If your child seems to have a poor attention span and is over 3 years
of
age, these recommendations may assist you in helping your child.
Your main obligations involve organizing your child's home life and
improving
discipline. Only after your child's behavior has improved will
you
know for certain if your child also has a short attention span.
If
he does, specific interventions to help him learn to listen and
complete
tasks ("stretch" his attention span) can be initiated. Even
though
you can't be sure about poor attention span until your child is 3 or 4
years of age, you can detect and improve behavior problems at any time
after 8 months of age.
A. Accept your child's limitations. Accept the fact that your child is intrinsically active and energetic and possibly always will be. The hyperactivity is not intentional. Don't expect to eliminate the hyperactivity but merely to bring it under reasonable control. Any criticism or other attempt to change an energetic child into a quiet or model child will cause more harm than good. Nothing helps a hyperactive child more than having a tolerant, patient, low-keyed parent.
B. Provide an outlet for the release of excess energy.
This energy can't be bottled up and stored. Daily outdoor
activities
such as running, sports, and long walks are good outlets. A
fenced
yard helps. In bad weather your child needs a recreational room
where
he can play as he pleases with minimal restrictions and
supervision.
If no large room is available, a garage will sometimes suffice.
Your
child should not have too many toys, for this can cause him to be more
easily distracted from playing with any one toy. The toys should
be safe and relatively unbreakable. Encourage your child to play
with one toy at a time.
Although the expression
of hyperactivity is allowed in these ways, it should not be needlessly
encouraged. Don't initiate roughhousing with your child.
Forbid
siblings to say, "Chase me, chase me," or to instigate other noisy
play.
Encouraging hyperactive behavior can lead to its becoming your child's
main style of interacting with people.
C. Keep your home well organized. Household routines help the hyperactive child to accept order. Keep the times for wake-up, meals, snacks, chores, naps, and bed as regular as possible. Try to keep your environment relatively quiet because this encourages thinking and listening. In general, leave the radio and TV off. Predictable daily events help your child's responses become more predictable.
D. Try not to let your child become fatigued. When a hyperactive child becomes exhausted, his self-control often breaks down and the hyperactivity becomes worse. Try to have your child sleep or rest when he is fatigued. If he can't seem to "turn off his motor," hold and rock him in a rocking chair.
E. Avoid taking your child to formal gatherings. Except for special occasions, avoid places where hyperactivity would be extremely inappropriate and embarrassing (such as churches or restaurants). You also may wish to reduce the number of times your child goes with you to stores and supermarkets. After your child develops adequate self-control at home, he can gradually be introduced to these situations. Be sure to praise your child when he plays independently rather than interrupting you when you are talking to guests or are on the telephone.
F. Maintain firm discipline. These children are unquestionably difficult to manage. They need more carefully planned discipline than the average child. Rules should be formulated mainly to prevent harm to your child and to others. Aggressive behavior, such as biting, hitting, and pushing, should be no more accepted in the hyperactive child than in the normal child. Try to eliminate such aggressive behaviors, but avoid unnecessary or unattainable rules; that is, don't expect your child to keep his hands and feet still. Hyperactive children tolerate fewer rules than the normal child. Enforce a few clear, consistent, important rules and add other rules at your child's pace. Avoid constant negative comments like "Don't do this," and "Stop that."
G. Enforce rules with nonphysical punishment. Physical punishment suggests to your child that physically aggressive behavior is OK. We want to teach hyperactive children to be less aggressive. Your child needs adult models of control and calmness. Try to use a friendly, matter-of-fact tone of voice when you discipline your child. If you yell, your child will be quick to imitate you. Punish your child for misbehavior immediately. When your child breaks a rule, isolate him in a chair or time-out room if a show of disapproval doesn't work. The time-out should last about 1 minute per year of your child's age. Without a time-out system, overall success is unlikely.
H. Stretch your child's attention span.
Encouraging
attentive (non hyperactive) behavior is the key to preparing your child
for school. Increased attention span and persistence with tasks
can
be taught at home. Don't wait until your child is of school age
and
expect the teacher to change him. By age 5 he needs at least a
25-minute
attention span to perform adequately in school.
Set aside several brief
periods each day to teach your child listening skills by reading to
him.
Start with picture books, and gradually progress to reading
stories.
Coloring pictures can be encouraged and praised. Teach games to
your
child, gradually increasing the difficulty by starting with building
blocks
and progressing to puzzles, dominoes, card games, and dice games.
Matching pictures is an excellent way to build your child's memory and
concentration span. Later, consequence games such as checkers or
tic-tac-toe can be introduced. When your child becomes restless,
stop and return for another session later. Praise your child for
attentive behavior. This process is slow but invaluable in
preparing
your child for school.
I. Buffer your child against any overreaction by neighbors. Ask neighbors with whom your child has contact to be helpers. If your child is labeled by some adults as a "bad" kid, it is important that this image of your child doesn't carry over into your home life. At home the attitude that must prevail is that your child is a good child with excess energy. It is extremely important that you not give up on him. Your child must always feel loved and accepted within the family. As long as a child has this acceptance, his self-esteem will survive. If your child has trouble doing well in school, help him gain a sense of success through a hobby in an area of strength.
J. From time to time, get away from it all. Exposure to some of these children for 24 hours a day would make anyone a wreck. Periodic breaks help parents to tolerate hyperactive behavior. If just the father works outside the home, he should try to look after the child when he comes home, not only to give his wife a deserved break but also to understand better what she must contend with during the day. A babysitter one afternoon each week and an occasional evening out can provide much-needed breaks for an exhausted mother. Preschool is another helpful option. Parents need a chance to rejuvenate themselves so that they can continue to meet their child's extra needs.
K. Utilize special programs at school. Try to start your child in preschool by age 3 to help him learn to organize his thoughts and develop his ability to focus. However, you should consider enrolling your child in kindergarten a year late (that is, at age 6 rather than 5) because the added maturity may help him fit in better with his classmates. Once your child enters grade school, the school is responsible for providing appropriate programs for your child's attention deficit disorder and any learning disability he might have. Some standard approaches that teachers use to help children with ADHD are smaller class size, isolated study space, spaced learning techniques, and inclusion of the child in tasks like erasing the blackboard or passing out books (as outlets for excessive energy). Many of these children spend part of their day with a teacher specializing in learning disabilities who helps improve their skills and confidence. If you think your child has ADHD and he has not been tested by the school's special education team, you can request an evaluation. Usually you can obtain the help your child needs with schoolwork by working closely with the school staff through parent-teacher conferences and special meetings. Your main job is to continue to help your child improve his attention span, self-discipline, and friendships at home.
L. Medications are sometimes helpful. Some stimulant drugs can improve a child's ability to concentrate. You may want to discuss the use of such medicines with your child's physician. In general, medications should not be prescribed before school age. They should also not be prescribed until after your child has been evaluated by a doctor and you have followed the suggestions we have given you. Medications need to be part of a broader treatment program.
M. Beware of things that don't work. Frustrated
parents
can blow a lot of time and money on snake-oil remedies in an attempt to
solve the problem 'naturally', or to avoid placing their child on
'drugs'.
Behavioral optometry (special glasses), electrical stimulus therapy,
herbs
(such as St. John's Wort), special diets, food supplements and vitamins
simply do not work.
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